The many roads taken – building life on my own terms
Elly Beintema
Born in the shadow of war in Nazi-occupied Amsterdam, Elly’s story is one of courage, resilience and reinvention.
Raised in a strict Frisian working-class family, her childhood was shaped by bombings, hardship, and the tensions left behind after liberation.
In 1960, she emigrated alone to England, determined to build a life on her own terms. Through triumphs, heartbreak, setbacks and unexpected opportunities, Elly forged an international career and discovered strengths she never knew she possessed.
Written with honesty, warmth and humour, this memoir is both deeply personal and universally relatable. It is a story of endurance, self-discovery, and ultimately, finding peace where it all began.
John Dickerson wrote:In the successes, heartaches and startling frankness, you will recognise something of yourself.
Emotional and moving... a compelling story of one woman's determination.




How do I order Elly Beintema’s book? I would like 3 copies. I live in Englannd
How do I order Elly Beintema’s book ‘Flight from a Cold Nest? I would like to order 3 copies.
Hi Christine, Elly’s book is currently on sale on Amazon with free delivery. Here’s the link:
https://mybook.to/ColdNest
Other online retailers will follow in due course.
Best wishes