This book holds wisdom not only for international schools, but for all organizations that assist families with international transitions. Doug’s well-balanced advice and structured guidelines are applicable across countries. I would recommend this book to anyone involved in education or counseling of globally-mobile families, or anyone with children impacted by mobility.
The transition to college or university is a tough one. It’s tough for students who have grown up in the same culture all of their lives. How much more so for the global nomad/ third culture kid (TCK) who has been exposed to many cultural traditions while growing up? This double transition needs to be taken seriously. Here are ten things to keep in mind when making your college transition:
- Understand what it means to be a global nomad / third culture kid (TCK). Your international lifestyle has impacted you in more ways than you can imagine. You have reaped many benefits from your cross-cultural, highly mobile childhood and have or will face many challenges too.
- At some point you will have an ‘encounter experience’ which is when you are woken up to the fact that you are different from your more traditional domestic peers. It is not you, as a person, who is different, but your life experiences that make you different. This encounter experience commonly takes place upon repatriation, often times for college/ university. Learning to live positively with those differences will help you to thrive in your new setting.
- Everyone goes through an adjustment when they arrive at their college or university. TCKs have the added burden of having to adjust to a new culture too, for their home culture will be foreign to them in many respects. Everyone will experience the same emotional ups and downs, insecurities and fears. You are not alone in that respect. Don’t be fooled by the happy faces. It’s a facade.
- The cycle of transition is fraught with an array of emotions. Feelings of self-doubt, insecurity, homesickness, and loss of self-esteem are normal and to be expected. They will pass with time but if you find yourself stuck in a downward cycle for too long and are not able to move forward, you need to seek help.
- It is not uncommon for TCKs to feel as if they don’t belong even in their home country. This comes as a surprise because they expect they will fit right in. You have no shared experience with them. It will take time to feel at home. It is a process.
- Global nomads find their sense of belonging with others who have shared a similar experience – other kids who have lived the expatriate lifestyle. Look for other TCKs on your college campus. Many so-called ‘international students’ are also TCKs and will have had similar experiences.
- Learn the practical life skills you will need for independent living before leaving home. This might include doing laundry, managing a check book, driving a car, taking public transportation, setting up a phone or Internet account, and learning to take responsibility for your actions.
Tina L. Quick, author of The Global Nomad’s Guide to University Transition.
“Expat-Living.info Guide to Cape Town” by Renata Harper provides you with all you need to know to prepare and move to Cape Town, South Africa, as well as settle in easily.
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Whether you’re moving to Cape Town or already living there as an expat, this comprehensive e-guide offers all you need to know to make the most of your expat experience in the Mother City.
The Guide to Cape Town is like having a relocation guide in your pocket. Depending on your needs, you may prefer to purchase a) e-guide only or b) e-guide with personal consultations with Renata via email. In the Guide you can expect:
- Tips on effectively preparing for your move
- Exact prices for goods and services in Cape Town
- Advice on where and how to live safely
- Information on international schools in Cape Town and how they compare to local schools
- How to get onto the road, into the shops and online quickly and without hassles
- Where and how to find new friends in Cape Town
- Where to go to find your “can’t-live-without” specialities from home
- How to employ domestic employees, including a sample contract
- Where and when to go on safari and how to save money while optimising your “bush experience”
- Interviews with expats currently in Cape Town
- … and lots more.
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“The Expat-Living.info Guide to Cape Town is like having a local friend who shows you what to do and what not to do in Cape Town. The guide is elaborate and honest and gives no-nonsense information that will guard you from the most common slip-ups and pitfalls in Cape Town. The author’s humour, frankness and writing style make it a pleasure to read. Essential for a well-prepared move to South Africa’s ‘mother city’.” – Bregje, the Netherlands
“The Expat-Living.info Guide to Cape Town shows you that there is so much to do in Cape Town… and its hints on making friends will be of value anywhere in the world. Very informative… and I really appreciated the safety tips.” – Rachel, Zimbabwe
“This Guide has reassured me that I am not alone as an accompanying spouse … Relocating is an exciting adventure but the novelty quickly turns to reality and as the accompanying spouse I have often felt like I am responsible for keeping the home a ‘happy’ place. I found the Guide’s advice really encouraging and motivating. It has also reignited my desire to explore Cape Town even further and to network that little bit more” – Debbie, England
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This book will benefit any teenager transitioning out of one culture and into another for university, as well as parents looking for advice on how to help their children enter this new phase of their life. Though there is no way to completely eliminate the challenges that a TCK will face, having this knowledge beforehand and keeping Quick’s useful suggestions in mind will undoubtedly make the transition easier.